Source: The View
When A Spouse Wants To Party Like Your Youth And You Don't Want To | The View
Jun 27, 2023 · 3m 26s
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5QpjX41630
>> Whoopi: WELCOME BACK. SO APPARENTLY, HELLO -- >> Sunny: SORRY. >> Whoopi: THERE'S SOMETHING HAPPENING. YEAH, I GUESS YOU CARE ABOUT IT. >> Joy: WE'RE GOING TO TRY. >> Whoopi: YOU'RE GOING TO TRY. A MOM OF AN 11 AND 7-YEAR-OLD TOLD SLATE THAT HER HUSBAND WANTS HER TO BE THE PARTY ANIMAL FROM THEIR YOUTH. >> Joy: YUTE. >> Whoopi: SHE SAYS SHE DOESN'T WANT TO. IS
THE MARRIAGE GOING TO BE OVER? >> Joy: WELL, SHE HAS TWO KIDS. ONE HAS AUTISM. HE WANTS TO GO OUT PARTYING BECAUSE HE IS A BIG BABY AND CAN'T HANDLE THE RESPONSIBILITY AT HOME. >> Whoopi: WAIT, THE HUSBAND IS A BIG BABY, YES, NOT THE KID. >> Joy: TOO IMMATURE. YOU KNOW, PEOPLE ARE GOING TO GET DIVORCED FROM THESE TYPE OF SITUATIONS BECAUSE THEY'RE GROWING IN
DIFFERENT DIRECTIONS. THIS IS WHY PEOPLE GET DIVORCED. I HAVE A STATISTIC. 75% OF INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES CITED LACK OF COMMITMENT WHICH IS WHAT HE IS DOING. HE HAS A LACK OF COMMITMENT TO THE FAMILY IT SOUNDS LIKE TO ME AND THAT LEADS TO INFIDELITY, THE GREAT INFIDELITY WHICH THEN LEADS TO DIVORCE. >> Sara: DRINKS OUT TO SLEEPING AROUND? MAYBE JUST GO FOR THE DRINK. >> Joy:
THIS IS MY OWN OBSERVATIONS. A LOT OF PEOPLE -- MARRIAGES BREAK UP BECAUSE THERE'S A THIRD PARTY INVOLVED. >> Sara: MEN ARE LIKE THIS. WE DON'T DISAGREE. WHEN HE WANTS TO BLOW OFF STEAM OR FEELS OVERWHELMED HE LOVES TO GO OUT, DRINK, HAVE FUN. >> Joy: DOESN'T SOUND LIKE HE WANTS TO DO IT ONCE IN A WHILE. >> Sara: I THINK EVERYONE RECHARGES DIFFERENTLY. THAT COULD
BE A BLOWOFF -- I'M NOT THAT GIRL. I'M A CUDDLE IN WITH A PINT OF ICE CREAM AND NETFLIX, SO THAT'S HOW I RECHARGE BUT HAD A FRIEND WHEN I WAS OVERWHELMED WITH THE KIDS ONCE, ONE FRIEND ALWAYS SAYS, WE NEED TO GO OUT. YOU KNOW WHAT WE NEED TO DO AND MY BEST FRIEND SAYS, WE SHOULD GET A FOOT MASSAGE. I'M MORE THAT. SO I
THINK EVERYONE FILLS THEIR TANK DIFFERENTLY. >> Sunny: HE ALSO -- YEAH, IT'S A RED FLAG AND SAID THIS ALSO, HE SAYS, SHE'S DONE WITH HIM NOW THAT THEY'VE HAD CHILDREN. SO IT SOUNDS LIKE HE WANTS TO BE FIRST. HE WANTS TO COME FIRST. >> Joy: HE'S A BABY. >> Sunny: LIFE CHANGES WHEN YOU HAVE CHILDREN. IT'S THE FIRST TIME FOR ME AT LEAST MY HEART WAS
LIKE OUTSIDE OF MY BODY AND EVERYBODY KNOWS I'M A HELICOPTER PARENT SO I'LL SAY IT FOR YOU, JOY AND WHOOPI. BUT MY KIDS COME FIRST. YOU KNOW? WHEN YOUR KIDS COME FIRST AND YOU TAKE MOST CHOICES SOMETHING KIND OF FALLS TO THE WAYSIDE. THERE IS A CURE. I THINK MOVIES AND A MARGARITA NIGHT, PERMANENT DATE NIGHT FOR THE TWO OF THEM COULD REALLY WORK. LIKE WHY
CAN'T HE ARRANGE THE DATE? SHE SHOULDN'T ARRANGE ANYTHING. HE SHOULD PICK THE MOVIE, PICK THE RESTAURANT, PICK THE PARTY PLACE AND EVERYTHING, PICK THE BABY-SITTER. PAY FOR THE BABY-SITTER. >> Alyssa: I TOLD YOU ABOUT MY EX HAD A BUD LIFE FRIDGE NEXT TO THE BED. RUN FOR THE HILLS. THIS IS NOT GOING TO WORK. >> Joy: THE OTHER THING WHEN YOU GET MARRIED VERY YOUNG --
[ LAUGHTER ] NEVER MIND. [ APPLAUSE
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