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the notion that someone that you married for a few years has rights to a decade or decades or even a lifetime of your future income is absolutely absurd to me given that men and women are equal under the you know the guys you know feminism today let's talk about that hypergamy I basically sit here in my life and go [__] like what do I do right

I If a woman dates lateral and up and a mandates or sorry a woman dates lateral and up in a mandate sort of lateral and down when it comes to success and finances status and a woman is intelligent that hurts her earning intelligence whatever like what the f what do I do I'll tell guys in honesty that you're in a better position to marry a woman

that's on the same part as you if not higher right because that almost removes most of the risk of losing your nest egg in any future income um my ex-wife's a lawyer you know she's very successful um so that really wasn't a huge issue as far as you know nest egg and division of assets it was more dealing with you know the child custody issues was

that daughter um but for women that you know like you like I assume that you've done well in life you know you've raced cars um I don't know you know what the total record is although I am a huge card Enthusiast but I don't watch racing I don't it's weird because I love driving supercars but I don't like watching other people drive supercars I don't find

it as interesting to drive them myself yeah I'm not gonna lie I don't watch that much racing but now that I do more commentating and I'm a host for I do a little bit for F1 NASCAR and IndyCar I obviously keep up with everything but yeah yeah I really find the job they did on the Netflix series um drive to survive really good on the formula

one thing but setting that aside um it's it's it's got to be difficult for you if you're a successful woman to find a guy and get into a long-term relationship because the thing with successful older guys is like Med Peak a little bit later on in life than women do right like men reach their sexual Market peak in their late 30s and the thing that women

don't like is they peak in their early 20s and that's just an unfortunate reality of the Sexes and it's always been that way men have always been success objects to women and women have always been Beauty objects to men so men tend to date younger women go into Peak though what does peak mean well um men are valued based on on their competency skills what they

can do um you know that like like that little Dent that they can put in the universe sort of thing whereas men don't usually care about women's degrees they don't usually show a lot of interest in their degrees on the wall framed in Mahogany with little letters after the name sort of thing it's Grand and it's Noble and all that sort of stuff but there's no

guy that ever said oh yeah look at the degree on her right guys will look at a woman and say look at whatever on her she's walking away sort of thing that's how men operate you know their their visual in the sense that they see women as Beauty objects and they've always been treated as Beauty objects even though Society tries to change that today so Peak

then for women's appearance is earlier value actually um yeah it's actually based on a lot I understand what the peak is because fertility is Peaks money is Peak beauty is what's what's the peak well that's that's a definition that they're trying to change today right because we women have valued men based on what they can bring to the table right like what resources they have available

to them to provide and preside over the family and the children and protect and all that sort of stuff uh women's value has historically always been around their beauty and their fertility um you know when they survey cross-culturally across all continents all religions and they show a lineup of every man from 18 to like 75 I think the survey was done under uh you know lineup

of women from all ages all the way up to 75 from 20. the universally almost all pick about 22 23 year old women you know as far as like beauty standards so that's just the way that societies always operated so as a beautiful attractive women maybe you know such as yourself that's also had a successful career that's competent influential on social media uh does commentating you

know let's say on race basic events and stuff like that there's not a lot of guys that are like oh my God she's um you know her voice or or her commentary on that program is so valuable to me what guys look at is the beauty aspect of a woman right like that's that's why women wear makeup dye their hair you know wear push-up bras and

accentuate you know their body curves and their lines with things like heels and stuff like that um as much as Society wants to change that today and say things like You're Beautiful at any weight like that's one of the big lies that I think that feminism tells women is you're beautiful at any size it's just not true right there are standards that men are drawn to

the myth of male power and he's done a few others like the boy crisis and things like that one of the observations that he made over his career like you know Decades of of studying all this material is basically that you can distill it down to that men are success objects and women are Beauty objects and that's how the Sexes view each other do you think

that's right doesn't matter if it's right or wrong that's just how we've always viewed each other throughout history I don't know I mean I think we we don't grow and evolve without a discussion without changes so it would imply that there's nothing wrong with anything and that there's no need to grow and evolve and you know I think that I don't know I think that there's

still a discussion around that is that the right thing is that is that right because they think that you know when we expand on that and we go into like value I think I saw something that you had written that said like if you took sex out of the uh relationship 90 of women would have nothing to offer yeah and if you took money out of

the relationship the 90 of men would have nothing to offer women explain that that's actually something that I came across in comedy believe it or not I get a lot of my material from Comedy that I you know summarize in my videos in my social media so if men lost their their status their success the wealth or influence their competency uh in society then 90 of

women probably wouldn't stay with those guys like the reason why women generally leave relationships and marriages and women leave marriages 80 of the time it's not generally men that leave marriages it's generally women that leave and when women leave it's because they feel like they can do better with another guy right um this guy that I'm married to that I've had my 2.1 kids in the

white picket fence in the station wagon he just sits around and watches Sports all day he's put on 150 pounds he can't keep a job down he doesn't even know how to change the light bulb I have to call my dad to come over and take care of stuff like that these are the sorts of things that women don't want to deal with right so when

I speak to Men I'm constantly telling them chase Excellence right like you can't let your guard down you can't retire you cannot stop you know pursuing passion you cannot stop putting a dent in Universe because if your wife your woman your girlfriend wakes up in the morning and she looks at you and thinks to herself I'm stuck with a loser there's a good chance she's probably

going to leave because marriage isn't forever anymore you know the nod is untied all the time um we're not particularly good as a species at monogamy so that's where that notion comes from and on the flip side of the coin I mean if a woman is like 90 of guys would leave relationships if sex was removed from the equation if his wife or his girlfriend all

of a sudden announced and said look I'm just going to become celibate I've gotten right with God I don't have sex anymore I'm going to become you know the Virgin Mary whatever he's going to be like huh that's interesting because the reason why I'm here is for access to easy frequent and you know amazing sex that's why you guys get married that's it that's the main

reason why guys are getting married believe it or not they think that when they get see the biggest complaint that guys have when they get married if you take a look at their Google search history as they start looking up words like why doesn't my wife want to bang me why doesn't my wife want to have sex with me how do I get my wife to

have sex with me could you imagine being married as a man and you're Google searching how do I get my wife to have sex with me there's a lot of marriages out there that are completely sexless right so when you remove sex from the equation and the sad part of it is a lot of guys they won't change that they'll just resort to something like pornography

so they won't leave the relationship they won't end the marriage it's generally not to their advantage to do that because they'll lose so much so they'll just stay lose what could be wealth could be future wealth could be access to their kids it depends it could be all those things so you're saying there's nothing else that a woman offers if it isn't sex they don't offer

Comfort they don't offer safety they don't offer a companionship they don't offer taking care of things they don't offer planning nice things for someone they don't offer cooking or cleaning or I didn't say that like anything like that no I didn't say that but women don't offer safety to me I offer safety to women yeah but all the other stuff you're talking about Comfort companionship love

all that sort of stuff of course but the main reason why men get into relationships with women is for sex what areas of value is it that you believe a woman has Beyond has to be more than sex well I I have greater standards than just sex right like I have girlfriends exactly you know she's got great culinary skills she's fun to be around we laugh

we joke we have similar interests like I like cycling so we go for bike rides a lot in the summertime so it's it's beyond just sex but the main reason why men mate select a woman is because of sexual intimacy that's just the way like that's why we're here on the earth to scatter seed right we're not here to build skyscrapers and Roads and drive electric

cars we're here to scatter seeds like that's our buy that's our biological imperative what do you think about the idea that the world is overpopulated do you believe in that or do you believe it's not getting populated enough I don't know I mean a lot of the stuff you hear in mainstream media there's just so much of it that I really question now especially since the

scandemic and that you know that that game they put they uh pulled up on us a few years ago it seems pretty obvious to me when I'm on a flight and I look out the window the amount of barren Land There is out there that we don't occupy so I don't really buy this you know this notion that we're overpopulating the Earth you know at the

stage of the game um you know when I'm on a flight and look at the window and there's humans everywhere like ants then I'll say okay maybe we have a problem but it seems like it's not really an issue I don't know what do you think no I don't think so either I think that you know I mean women are not having are getting married later

they're having kids later they're not having as many I don't think couples are are having as many kids as they used to they're not needed for farming and taking care of the property and various different things that I think that in many many decades ago was probably more important I think that fertility is probably down in general across the board but especially in men testosterone is

definitely down a large degree you probably know more about that statistic than I do um so I don't think that it's driving driving the numbers up I think you want to I mean if you want to go down the rabbit hole on things like testosterone I can I can blow your mind on that one too I'd love it blow my mind if you like this clip

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